Dancin' to the Oldies

Hey Anthony, 
     I'm 32 years old (just) and would love to come to Kurfew. I usually like guys a little younger than myself and they seem to like me. I'm not at all the "predatory" type you've mentioned, but just the opposite. Would someone my  age make the Kurfew clientele uncomfortable? Thanks. 
— 32

Dear 32,
     I am so happy that you wrote to me because it gives me the perfect opportunity to address a subject that sometimes becomes a problem for myself and I'm sure many others:  "When older guys come to Kurfew looking for younger guys."  In and of itself, there is nothing wrong with this as many younger guys (like myself) are attracted to older men.  The only problem is that some "older" guys seem to undergo some brain deterioration which eliminates their ability to pick up on subtle clues.  I do take some responsibiliy for this because I am a super nice guy and I hesitate to tell someone flat out that they are bugging the hell out of me, but even so, if someone is clearly not interested in you, move on!  Don't spoil their night and waste a large part of your own.  So in direct answer to your question, as long as you respect the rest of the crowd and don't make yourself the stereotypical "older-guy-menace" than I see no reason why you would make anyone uncomfortable.  Come party with the rest of us!  And to the rest of you guys out there, I can not stress enough the importance of social graces!  Respect people's limits and pay attention to the response you are getting from them.  If it seems like someone isn't really into you, chances are....they aren't!!!
— Ambiguous Anthony