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18
at Midnight...Now let me in!
Dear Anthony,
I will be eighteen soon and was thinking of going to New York to
have my party
at Kurfew. Since it will be the first night I spend as eighteen,
however,
can I show an I.D. that has my birthdate on it? Do I need
to make arrangements
to get into the club? Will I be able to get in? I'd
also like to
know--I'd like to invite some open minded but straight friends--since
I won't
yet be a regular at Kurfew's, is there anyway I can do this?
Thanks for any info you can give me.
—
Bi Birthday Boy
Hey
Bi Birthday Boy,
I think it's a great idea that you're going to have your best buds
to Kurfew for your birthday. As long as you are legally 18
on that evening, you won't have a problem getting through the door...if
you actually turn 18 on Sunday, you'll have to wait till midnight
to actually be admitted, but that's a good time to arrive anyway.
Be sure to bring valid state ID, such as a driver's license, birth
certificate or passport. And as long as your straight friends
don't look like they are there to make trouble and don't demonstrate
any anti-gay behavior, everything will be OK. Hey, if you
have a while before your birthday, why not try to set something
up a special event through Kurfew! Email boys@kurfew.com and
tell them when your birthday is and how many people you want to
bring.
Happy
Birthday!!
—
Ambiguous Anthony