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He did it once but will he do it again???

Submitted By: Chris
Date: September 23

Well, here I go. I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. In the beginning of this relationship, I took my best friend to Busch Gardens with me, when I came back my other best friend called me at work and said that my boyfriend cheated on me... I called him that night and he denied first, but later finally confessed. I hung up and did not speak to him until the next day. I am a man of a second chance, and I strongly believe that. I trust him in certain areas, but will he do it again. He swore to me that he would not do it, but my insecurity tells me otherwise. He called me one day when he was suppose to be here with me, and said that he was with his mother, and then the next day he confessed that he was with two other gay guys, and that made me upset. But I was not upset that he was with the two guys I was morely upset that he lied to me. When I asked him why he lied, he said because I would get mad if he told me he was going to be with some other guy. I told him, that he can not say I would get mad if he has never tried to tell me before doing it, he has always just done it and then confessed later. I have been checking with him lately to see if he has been cheating on me, he swears he has not, and I would get a bad feeling that he is if he was. He jokes around about cheating on me alot like he would ask me "What would you do if I told you I cheated on you again?" I mean that kind of stuff really is not cool, what should I do I have tried the whole sit down and talk honestly, and I love him and I don,t wanna break up, but What do I do??? help please!!!!

Questions In This Thread

• He did it once but will he do it again???
  Chris -- September 23
  • Probably
    Anthony -- September 25
  • Re: He did it once but will he do it again???
    HELENA -- November 7
    • prepare for the worst
      Anthony -- November 23

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