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SOMETHING VERY NEW

Submitted By: Mike
Date: April 18

In Answer To: Can I change from being gay??? (JJ)

hi, i just signed up on this web address today..I don't know if i belong here, but i know i have strong feelings towards other guys. I consider myself bisexual even though i have experienced yet with a male or female. I find myself attracted to both but i lean towards the males. These feeling are basialyl kept to myself and nobody knows of my identity besides myself. I have rescently been jumping up and getting to meet this guy that i have been tlaking to, whome from i met online. We have already talked on the phone and we are thinking about meeting, yet i am having second feelings. I am getting scared and yet paranoid. At first, i had these feelings of anxious destiny to met this person and now i am just nervous as hell. I am not really sure how i will act, in general i am a very shy person. I know the most advice is to give to ap erson like me is, try it, see how it goes, and be your self or tell the other person how you feel. The thing is, i dont even know if i will get enough courage to do this myself. I guess it is hard accepting the fact that i am potentiall gay or whatever. I don't know how to feel and yes, i am very new at this, so i guess basically i don't know what to do. This guy is 21 years old and im 18, i think he has had experience with other people, buit as far as that, he seems like a kool person. I feel like i am just ranting on, but i guess my real anxiety is about {that moment}, when we are together, being in front of people, letting them see, im going to be frighenened as hell. I don't know what kind of was i should act upon this. This does seem to sudden for me and it is just like i want to jump in because im bored and i want to experience but at the sae time i feel catotonic just by thinking about what will happen. Anyways, i would realyl like some advise.

THankyou

Questions In This Thread

• Can I change from being gay???
  JJ -- March 24
  • Don't run
    Anthony -- March 30
    • Re: COULD YOU HELP ME I THINK IM GAY??
      HECTOR -- April 20
      • 
        Anthony -- April 30
  • The grass is always greener!
    Jeff -- March 30
  • SOMETHING VERY NEW
    Mike -- April 18
    • Try to relax
      Anthony -- April 30

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