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Try to relax

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: April 30

In Answer To: SOMETHING VERY NEW (Mike)

Whoa. You are getting yourself really worked up over this, and while I understand that you are confused and scared, this is not healthy! From your message I am sensing that your biggest worry right now is finding out that you are gay. This may be the case and if it is you are, you are going to need to deal with it. I know that it can feel like the end of the world, but you will benefit more by taking control of the situation and dealing with it in a strong, confident way than you will by becoming filled with anxiety and self loathing. If you aren't comfortable meeting this guy yet than you should wait. Of course you will be nervous doing this, but it is probably the first step towards truth in your life. I think that interacting with someone who has gone through this already will make you feel a lot better and you should at least be happy that you have found someone that you feel somewhat comfortable talking to. Most people don't even have that. Take things slowly (and with many deep breaths) and remember that you can and will deal with whatever the future deals you.

Questions In This Thread

• Can I change from being gay???
  JJ -- March 24
  • Don't run
    Anthony -- March 30
    • Re: COULD YOU HELP ME I THINK IM GAY??
      HECTOR -- April 20
      • 
        Anthony -- April 30
  • The grass is always greener!
    Jeff -- March 30
  • SOMETHING VERY NEW
    Mike -- April 18
    • Try to relax
      Anthony -- April 30

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