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Yep, I'm in love with my friend

Submitted By: WhatToDo
Date: February 28

Ok I know this is the same old crap, but here goes. I have this friend who comes over about every other day. He spends the night a lot also. We've been friends for 2 years, and yep you guessed it, I'm in love with him but he or anyone else doesn't know i'm gay. There are clues that lead me to think he is at least curious, but sometimes what you want to belive interferes with reality. Like someone posted, we'll wrestle around and end up just layin' on or snuggled up to each other. Lots of times he'll lay his head on my shoulder. Then there's always the thing where we wake up the next morning when he spends the night, and he'll roll over and put his arm over me. He puts his arm over me a lot but removes it quickly. It seems almost like he gets lost in the moment and then realizes what he's doing seems gay so he pulls away. Also he'll never move over if we like sit down in the floor and our legs or arms touch, he doesn't jerk away like most guys do. He does seem to like girls and talks about them as if he does so that is what throws me off. Basicly this is how it is: either 1) We both have feelings for each other and are both afraid that the other will not approve, or 2) I just care so much for him that I think he has feelings for me when in reality he's just straight and not afraid to be friendly with guys. What do you guys think?

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