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Life is too short

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: February 27

In Answer To: Little bit of 'net vs. real life (Rayne)

I've been racking my brain constantly, trying to figure out what to do about my little problem. See, I met someone on the internet, whom I love dearly, and I'll be visiting next year but I also recently met a guy who moved into a house on my street and I really like him. We have so many things in Common and we love each other's company. I know for sure he's gay so that wouldn't be a problem. My friends said just date him because my online bo wouldn't find out, but I'd feel horribly guilty. I dunno what to do.

A year is a long time. If the love between you and your internet boyfriend is real, than it isn't going anywhere. You obviously like this other guy, why not give it a shot. The perfect guy doesn't move in across the street everyday. Tell the internet guy that you care about him but you think that the two of you should not be completely exclusive until you have at least met eachother. One day you might kick yourself for not exploring this possibility.

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• Little bit of 'net vs. real life
  Rayne -- February 13
  • Life is too short
    Anthony -- February 27

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