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Getting to the bottom

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: January 7

In Answer To: Is my boyfriend gay, bi or just confused (Mishla)

Wow. It is obvious that something needs to be done and quick. You are obviosuly suffering being in an unfulfilling relationship and your boyfriend seems depressed and preoccupied. You asked if your relationship has a chance, and honestly, I don't think it does unless you are willing to share him sexually. If you are correct, and he is truly gay, which I must say sounds like a good possibility, he will never be satisfied with you sexually (there's nothing wrong with you, you are simply not a man). He will always be unahppy and preoccupied. Maybe you could suggest a trial separation where he could just think things over, or explore his options or whatever he wants. Many gay guys try to force themselves to be straight, when the defenses start breaking, they try bisexuality, and unfrortunately, as Carrie puts it on Sex and the City, sometimes bisexual is just a pit-stop on the way to Gays-ville. At any rate, if things don't improve, it is foolish to continue in a relationship that is lacking to both parties. Good Luck and please let me know how everything goes.
Peace
Anthony

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