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Submitted By: Anthony
Date: January 7

In Answer To: Long Distance Relationship (Houston guy)

ok here is the deal, i met the perfect guy, without a doubt the cutest person around, great personality and just wonderful... the issue is. that he lives 150 miles from me, and i am the only one that can drive out there. He came out to his mom who he lives with, and she is cool with it, but now she is begining to hate me because she used to be the center of his life, and that is focusing... I don't want to lose him, but i don't know what i should do because i can't go over there. He will be here in houston in the summer for college and will stay until he graduates (4years) but i sometimes feel like it's not a relationship because sometimes i see him only once a month.... any advice?

p.s. we are planning on going to NY this summer, would Kurfew be cool for a couple or is it more singles

I think that the best way for you to get the answers you want is to talk with your beloved. Explain the concerns you have about the relationships (his mother and the distance), discuss with him possible solutions, if none can be found, then you need to decide whether or not you want to continue seeing eachother.
Anthony
Oh yeah, Kurfew is equally fun for singles, couples or groups of friends (and while I prefer the latter, I've experieced all three and find that they each have something to offer)

Questions In This Thread

• Long Distance Relationship
  Houston guy -- January 3
  • Talk to him
    Anthony -- January 7

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