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Stop wasting time!

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: November 29

In Answer To: How to find HIM... (Charlie)

Charlie,

If you are really serious about finding a guy for a relationship, the best advice I can give you is to quit it with the random hook-ups. Even though I have no problems in general with hooking up, if you are serious about a more meaningful relationship, hooking up may be standing in your way. First of all, every time you hook up with a guy, you are wasting time, when you go out, instead of going home with someone, stay until you find someone who is looking for the same thing as you. It might be easier to just hook up with someone, but it is probably standing in your way of what you really want (this is called taking the easy way out...instant gratification) Also, a guy that might be a potential relationship for you might lose respect for you if you go home with him the first night that you meet. Just talk to people when you go out, find people with similar interests as you, if you find someone interesting, ask for their number and give them a call a few days later.

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