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Is he gay??? Bi??

Submitted By: Desmond
Date: October 7

This is a very very difficult situation...so here is the background info....I have this friend whom I met a bit over 2 years ago at my old job...we no longer work together but stay in touch through phone calls emails and of course ocassional visits...he lives out of town but we both make great efforts to see each other. He is a former model and still does some side work....his personality is awesome....we love similar things...school and a raging night life...one thing though I'm a closet gay and he's well "straight." Still I hold hope that he is not...he eludes to hating women, he loves fashion, house decorating, we can talk for hours about almost nothing. In one instance while drunk he, myself and some girl were playing quarters and she said that she felt hot and said she wanted to take a shower. He and I stayed quiet and then I noticed he turned to me and quietly said let's take a shower together...I was in shock and did nothing, booo! Funny thing is he doesn't know I'm gay...but I make no effort to let him know I'm not...haha! What steps should I take in finding out? In plain what should I do?!?!? Is he possibly gay/bi? If so what can I do to find out??

Questions In This Thread

• Is he gay??? Bi??
  Desmond -- October 7
  • Desmond, this ain't rocket science!
    Jeff -- October 8

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