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Don't rush if it doen'st feel right

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: August 11

In Answer To: Petrified and Jittery (Matteo)

Well I am glad that you are smart enough not to let someone pick you up off the street for sex. It is natural for you to feel "nervous and jittery" about something like that. It would probably be a really horrible experience. That said, in general, I don't think you should force yourself to be intimate with a guy just to experience it. You obviously have your reservations about rushing into something or I don't think you would be so nervous about the whole thing. Maybe you should try to go to a club again without chickening out! If you think you would have fun you at least owe it to yourself to find out. Maybe while you are "having fun" you will meet someone with whom you would feel comfortable about sharing an intiate experience. Good Luck.

Questions In This Thread

• Petrified and Jittery
  Matteo -- August 5
  • Don't rush if it doen'st feel right
    Anthony -- August 11

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