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You're going to have to get over him...

Submitted By: Jeff
Date: August 19

In Answer To: In a pickle (A)

Anthony's answer is right on the money, as harsh as he might be. There's nothing less attractive than some lonely, whining, hanger-on. The fact that he was sexually interested in you when he was drunk means nothing. Actually, even if he wasn't drunk and expressed interest in you, he may no longer feel that towards you, except perhaps when he's drinking. But having him chug a few beers before he sees you is not the key to a healthy relationship.

As Anthony said, gather up your self respect and get on with your life. Drop this boy as hard as it may be. Stay friends if you think you can handle it, but focus your time on meeting new people and eventually finding someone who is genuinely interested in you.

Questions In This Thread

• In a pickle
  A -- August 12
  • Have some self respect
    Anthony -- August 12
  • You're going to have to get over him...
    Jeff -- August 19

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