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Give him space

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: August 12

In Answer To: Best friend gay? (J)

Please Help,
OK, at first this seemed like a really difficult situation, but I think that the answer is actually easy. It seems to me that he is definitely "bi-curious" at least which means that he could be str8, gay, or bi, but right now he is a little confused. As far him being "up" in the morning, this phenomenon commonly called "morning wood" happens to all guys and it is due to a hormonal build up during sleep. I don't mean to burst your piece de resistance, but I don't mean to say that his morning wood is completely unrelated to his possible attraction to you. But I digress. The answer is, do nothing! He is obviously progressing at his own rate as it seems with time he is becoming more and more "friendly" with you, so just let him. I think you may have scared him off a little bit with the whole fag comment, so just lay low and let him come on to you. You might also want to egg him on a little, but be subtle. First of all, try to spend time alone with him (have him sleep over), drinking always helps, lose those inhibitions, but perhaps further plotting will be necessary (these are the things I love to do!). Here is a suggestion that I have for you. The next time he is over, go online and pretend you are just checking mail, chatting a little, etc. Set up in advance to have a friend of yours be online and start chatting with you pretending to be a hot girl. After like 10 minutes have him(her) say that she is sending you a pic of herself in the shower. Have the person send you two guys sucking each other off or something like that and then you can both act really disgusted or whatever guys do at this point. This is just a suggestion which will give you an opportunity to gage his reaction, of course you will have to leave this to your own discretion. Anyway, my point is, stop cornering him and let him come to you, he will! >>

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