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Best friend gay?

Submitted By: J
Date: August 12

( I'm 16 - He Is Too ) Hi, My names J., and I got a big problem. Ok, I am so much questioning my best friend...For maybe he is Bi, or Even gay! He always hooks up with girls, and actually goes to like 3rd base with them......He talks about hookin up with the girls a lot, etc... So thats what makes me get turned off by him... But listen, some signs that sort of make me think about his sexuality is this.....Sometimes when he comes over we wrestle on my bed ( we both used to wrestle ) and sometimes, he just lays on top of me... My stomach pressed to his stomach..and just lays there breathing..and I always say to him, " you just gonna lay there all day " and he just says, " haha. " Also, whenever he sleeps over, he sleeps IN my bed with me, wearing just boxers ( but goes under/over ) with sheets... Now, when we're starting to fall asleep, just this past weekend, he was UNDER and was rubbing my foot with his foot, and then rubbing my leg too...just the lower part....Seemed also like he was getting close to me... Or i could just be imagining it.... Sometimes when he wakes up in the morning..Let just say his good friend is UP
and its pretty freakin noticable..... See, one thing is this past weekend we were messing with eachother and rubbing our feet together, and he was on the phone with his GIRLFRIEND and he said ok im sleeping on the floor... Then I said Why... and he said IM too hot in the bed.. i need to go on the floor and turn ur A/C on high...HEAT rises so I have to be in a low position.. And i kept asking him.. " ummm, why ? you always sleep in the bed.... do u think im a fag or something??! then he said no, chill the *uck out " So... Then he said I'm gonna sleep on the floor from now on because i dont want to be a "fudgepacker" like You, Chad, and Erick ( we're all best friends ). I was like....Ummm...Ok... For some reason I still think he'll sleep in my bed again, but what should I do?? Oh yeah, also, he is very homophobic in the fact that he said " If A guy ever touched me in a gay way, I'd punch them
right in their face. "

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

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