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Don't steal. Find your own.

Submitted By: Jeff
Date: January 16

In Answer To: In love with my sister's boyfriend... (Deek)

Besides the age of consent issue (depending on what state you live in) there's also the issue of betraying your sister, which is what you would be doing by going after her boyfriend. A decent brother, sister, friend, cousin, or whatever, will respect an existing relationship and will immediately put out of his/her mind the prospect of getting involved with that person's boyfriend or girlfriend. There are already enough integrity-lacking, self-obsessed individuals who jump at any chance of a sexual experience regardless of the implications.

For your sake and your sister's sake, I hope you be the better person and get your mind off your sister's boyfriend. It's just part of life that you will find yourself attracted, or even feeling "in love" with people who you can't get involved with for one reason or another. You wouldn't want your sister trying to steal someone YOU were interested in, would you? You've already gone too far by pursuing this in your mind and apparently giving the boy an indication that you are interested There are thousands of other boys out there: Go find one of your own.

Questions In This Thread

• In love with my sister's boyfriend...
  Deek -- January 14
  • Don't steal. Find your own.
    Jeff -- January 16
  • Blood is thicker than water
    Anthony -- January 17

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