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Is he or isn't he?

Submitted By: Confused By Other Guy
Date: November 10

Dear Jeff and Anthony,

I am a freshman in high school. I am postive I am gay, but I am not sure about another guy. He is a sophmore and I think he is so cute. I have been noticing that most of his friends are girls but I he doesn't take interest in them. He could have a lot of girls if he wanted to but he doesn't. He never talks about girls at all. He also is really "feely" with the guys like getting really close to them like he's cold at the football games and touching them things like that. When someone calls him gay he really doesn't say anying. Most guys get really definsive when you call them gay. I have noticed him starring at me in that certin way. I just starred back. I am not out about being gay. So is there any way I could find out without letting anyone know I am gay? Could guys please give me your advice on this? What should I do and do you think he is gay?

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