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Submitted By: Jeff
Date: January 10

In Answer To: Confused College Boy (Nico)

I like to avoid the labels, but generally if you're aroused by other males AND you are aroused by females, then you are bisexual. If you are attracted to males far more than females, than you can consider yourself gay.

It's not unusual to associate your same-sex attraction to the term "gay" in your mid- to late- teens.

Don't rush yourself into anything nor feel pressured to define your sexual orientation. Take the time to appreciate the marvelous compl#####y of human sexual orientation, and before long you will become more and more comortable with who you are. You can email me back with your other questions...

Good luck!

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