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I'm REALLY confused

Submitted By: Michelle
Date: January 4

I often find myself looking at girls and being attracted to them. I have developed crushes on girls in the past also. But, when I think about having a sexual relationship with a girl it doesn't seem to appealing.
The other side is I also find myself looking at guys and being a little bit attracted to them. But, if I think about a sexual relationship with a guy it doesn't bother me.
I would go out and experiment, but I'm a virgin and most importantly a Christian. I've been told my whole life that homosexuality is wrong. Even though the Bible says its wrong, I have mixed feelings about it. People say gay people choose to live that life, but I didn't choose to have feelings for girls. And, who would CHOOSE to live a life that so many can't stand and people are killed for.
I need help. Am I gay, bi, or straight and just curious?

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• I'm REALLY confused
  Michelle -- January 4
  • Simple advice: Follow your heart.
    Jeff -- January 10

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