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My "I'm Gay" experience...

Submitted By: Jeff
Date: December 15

In Answer To: Living with lies...... or am I? (Robbie)

Your story struck a chord because I remember one of the first times that I "drank heavily" in college and had this ridiculous urge to scream out, "I am gay!!!" This desire to scream, "I am gay," (whether it is thought, or actually done, in your case) likely suggests something that we've been dying to do for a long time. The effects of the alcohol made that possible.

I would bet that you are either gay or bisexual, by virtue of your submission of the question, and your comments about "hot guys" (although bear in mind, it's perfectly normal for a straight guy to recognize a "hot guy.") If you want to date a girl who heard you make your "I am gay!!!" comment, I would suggest that you tell her the honest truth: that you're still a bit confused about your sexuality and you're working it out!!! If she accepts you the way you are, you've got nothing to hide, and you've found a great girl! So good luck and let me know how it goes!

Questions In This Thread

• Living with lies...... or am I?
  Robbie -- December 8
  • The path that lead you here
    Anthony -- December 8
  • My "I'm Gay" experience...
    Jeff -- December 15

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