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You're in good company!

Submitted By: Dave
Date: 12/25/00

In Answer To: The frustrations are building up! (Andrew)

Dear Andrew,
I totally feel what you are feeling with the emptiness feeling inside. It makes me feel somewhat better when I know that there are others out there with the same emotions and feelings that I have. You said you get frustrated because you can't meet someone with the same feelings as you, but I don't think you should get frustrated and stressed and have anxiety build up. I used to get like that then I realized, it wasn't just me. There are so many guys out there who yearn for a relationship andit will come all they need is patience. I have said this one thousand times, but its definitly the truth. You can go out in public and try to find guys, and yes it is hard, but it will still take time to find the special person. You do understand the concept of patience and it's good you do. I hope it makes you feel better to
know your not alone with that feeling. I always think of it as a little club or something or a
little group of guys all waiting for the same thing and then it makes me feel better. If you do
start feeling like you can't take the frustration or stress anymore just write me again. I am here for you and want to be. So good luck with handling this, Also, read over some of my other advice to get more ideas. And don't forget the value of good 'ol friends in making you feel good! I hope to hear from you again in the future.

Dave

Questions In This Thread

• The frustrations are building up!
  Andrew -- 12/25/00
  • You're in good company!
    Dave -- 12/25/00

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