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Careful, Careful!

Submitted By: Sup Sabrina
Date: 7/27/01

In Answer To: Re:the girl that is bringing me out (subrina)

Hey Subrina,
Nice name :0) !
From what you've told me there are a couple of possiblities* here. A- Your friend has feelings for you, and is nervous to act on them because either 1- she doesn't want to go through the whole "You were my first ordeal"(which is a possiblity that I firmly agree with!), 2- she doesn't want to ruin the friendship, or 3- she's not big on the whole fooling around with someone unsure. Or B- She doesn't have feelings for you in that way, and she's just playfully flirting.
*Note- Let's keep in mind these are just possibilities! I am not Miss Cleo!
Although they are all good possibilities I really can't give you an answer, because I don't know either of you or the situation well enough. In my opinion I think it's leaning towards the latter. My advice is this:
1) Tread lightly on the whole "Friend as a first" ordeal, trust me on this, it rarely ends prettily.
2) You say you have a good friendship, so why would you want to mess up a good thing?
3) Definately follow the Act-As-If policy- Act as if you don't care! You have already made it clear to her that you have more than friendly feelings, and she did not reciprocate. In order to protect yourself from any further disappointment try to let your feelings go. As you said, this may just be a false infactuation caused by your lack of Bisexual and Lesbian aquaintances.
4) I definately Do Not recommend having your first experience with a friend, nor do I think you should Ever have exeriences with true friends under Any circumstances.
With that being said, good luck, and I hope I've helped you out.
Sabrina

Questions In This Thread

• Re:the girl that is bringing me out
  subrina -- 7/24/01
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    Sup Sabrina -- 7/27/01

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