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Do you want a label?

Submitted By: Jeff
Date: August 29

In Answer To: How do I know if I'm gay??? (J Ellite)

I think Anthony's got a great point...the label is far less important than your feelings. Whether you call yourself gay, bi or straight should not impact your relationship with this guy.

If it helps to categorize yourself for other reasons, it makes sense to consider yourself at least bisexual if you find yourself sexually attracted to both males and females. If you discover that you were never actually physically attracted to girls, but only to guys, then you can consider yourself "gay," and I'd say "welcome to the club." Hehe.

Questions In This Thread

• How do I know if I'm gay???
  J Ellite -- August 19
  • Love is greater than "gay" or "straight"
    Anthony -- August 19
  • Do you want a label?
    Jeff -- August 29

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