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Confused???

Submitted By: Yovarrian
Date: June 24

I am very confused. I am 21/m and I have no idea what or really who I am. I am attracted to and have dated women for many years. I am also attracted to men, but have not done anything in a long time aside from years of childhood exploration. My social background and religious programming tell me its wrong, however I know that is just closed-mindedness and yet I still feel guilty or morally wrong for having such feelings. There are many questions that I ask myself to try and come to a conclusion such as am I attracted to men because of the lack of a male rolemodel in my life as I lost my father to cancer when I was 12, but this feels more like an "excuse" than a cause. Part of me is just afraid to come out because of the lonelyness that already alienates me. I am not that attractive of a person and I don't think I am emotionally ready for another relationship because of all the questions that I can't answer about my self. Is there any adive you can give someone as confused as me. It would be greatly appreciated.

Questions In This Thread

• Confused???
  Yovarrian -- June 24
  • You are probably bisexual.
    Jeff -- June 26

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