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I choke up when they ask if I'm gay!!!

Submitted By: ~~The LHS Phantom~~
Date: February 18

Okay , Well I have several problems okay ill start with the smallest one . My best friend ,Chase whom I have known for near 10 years now ... well as we grew older i became attracred to him & then when he was about 11 & i was around 12 ... We were chilling @ my house & then he just jumps on top of me & starts grabing me & crap. no oral nor intercourse was involved , in fact I didnt do anything in return I actualy "struggled" to get him off I really didnt want him to but i wasnt going to just let him do that I was only 12 & I was freaked out . Well he did this off & on for a few days about 2 weeks & then FINALY i acused him of being gay & he said " hell no i just do it cuz it #####es u off" what a lame excuse but now....after that we dont talk or anything or @ least not nearly as often. Okay now to the point about a week ago i stayed @ his house while my mom was in town & we went back into the woods & i was ready to come out to him but when i started to I got scared & i was like "er.chase i have a problem" so he just says "what?" okay now i say something really pointless "I cant tell you......" BLAH i am dumb & hes like " Greg (me) , you can tell me anything ive known you a really long time & it feels weird not knowing something about you...but Greg are you gay? if so im going home now i dont want to be here anymore if you are" so i just choke out "no" but i still cant tell you.." & then i just walk home & we havent talked since. HELP ....

Okay on to #2 ..well there is a guy @ school Im atracted to & about this point you are prolly thinking "well 1st you need to become friends & work ur way up" right? well if not sorry but im makeing a pretty accurate assumption . But the problem with that is Is that ive known him 4 years & we are good friends . I also think he is gay or @ least bi . He is really femme ( not the wildest about the femme type but i dont mind ) he dresses real nice...I dont understand why people find thata sign of gayness because I mean u just dress nice whats so gay about that ? But since every one else uses that asa reason I will to . He also hang with a lot of girls but not in the flirtatious way , he also giggles a lot & loves those phunny gel pens that most girls like . I know all of those reason are kinda pointless but ud have to meet him in person to understand what i am saying. Okay well then I started to get up to curage to tell him but we cluldnt talk even tho we were sitting right by each other in class we started passing notes & he was aware that i had a major problem but little did he know that i was gay . You would have to have "gaydar" to know i was gay . okay well anyway back to the point I said in the note something like..." justin, hey,well as you know i ahve a problem..but im afraid & its hard to say it even to say it to my self & I know i can trust you its not a matterof trust its a matter of me being able to say it ." then i passed the note to him & he replys"Greg are you gay? " I look @ him for a second then I whisper loudly "nooooo" & i wrote "NOOO" as well..I dont know why i guess i choked up again. Well could u help ? I know I said I had 3 but this is long enough infact very long so ill stop...please try to reply.

Questions In This Thread

• I choke up when they ask if I'm gay!!!
  ~~The LHS Phantom~~ -- February 18
  • Follow through with your intentions...
    Jeff -- February 24

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