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Re: stuck

Submitted By: anon
Date: February 14

In Answer To: am i or am i not (torn69)

I am a 17 bi (not out though)and have two problems...
first my best friend.
i dont know if he is gay but i love him.
this is not just a case of attraction but real love.
i see the way he looks at me sometimes and i wonder if he does like me,then other times he says he hates gay and"poofs".
i have kissed him once (not a full on) at a new years party and i felt like i was on top of the world.
do you i think i should wait for him to approach me??or go for it and through caution to the wind?
the other problem is that this guy has grabbed me all over whenever we are alone.
i have known this guy for a year and although he is very attractive i would feel guilty for my best pal who i love if i ever took to his advances,but yet again i feel im missing out.
god this is making me crazy.
i am not from america im from scotland but this site seemed my best bet to try and suss it out.
i was told by another friend(bi-female)to see none of them and go to this site to find a boyfriend but i want to sort it out.
thank you.

Questions In This Thread

• am i or am i not
  torn69 -- January 4
  • To tell or not to tell...part 2
    Anthony -- January 6
  • Re: stuck
    anon -- February 14
    • Take some action...
      Jeff -- February 24

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