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Quit your whining!

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: August 5

In Answer To: Do you have a guy for me? (Dimitrius)

I don't mean to be harsh, but I am tired of people whining about how rough their love life is and how lonely they are. Dating, and searching for guys is supposed to be a fun activity, it isn't supposed to be a brooding journey into one's personal hell. Stop taking yourself so seriously and just set out to have a good time. In my experience, it is the people who say things like "I am a hopeless romantic" and "Every guy I meet only wants sex" who often create self fulfilling prophecies that hinder their social lives. So here is my advice. Get your shit together, and just go out as much as you can to all different sorts of places. Don't concentrate on meeting guys, concentrate on having fun, once you've got this down, you can attempt to meet guy without putting so much pressure on yourself and I think that you will find that you will have more relaxed, quality interpersonal relationships. Remember, no one wants to date a guy who isn't a whole person on their own.

Questions In This Thread

• Do you have a guy for me?
  Dimitrius -- August 2
  • Develop realistic expectations!
    Jeff -- August 2
  • Quit your whining!
    Anthony -- August 5

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