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I need a clue??????

Submitted By: Jeff
Date: November 24

In Answer To: i need a clue?????? (jammie)

By age 15, most people have a good sense of their sexual orientation, but there's really no defined age at which you must decide where you stand. Also, very few people fit neatly in the "exclusively gay" or "exclusively straight" category. Therefore, you can have a strong attraction towards boys, but still have feelings towards girls. Whether you want to call yourself "gay," "bi" or not label yourself at all is completely up to you. There's no law that says you must define yourself in any of these categories.

If you read through some of the other questions/answers in this column, I think they'll be very helpful.

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