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Choices

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: November 21

In Answer To: should i marry him or not (greyson19)

Ok, first off, I don't really see any good reason for two guys to "get married" I am not sure what that means exactly, and if you decide to "marry" him, I don't see why you would even have to tell you parents. The only two reasons I can think of are that your bfriend wants you to tell your family as a symbolic gesture of your commitment, or your marrying would mean moving in together which may alert your parents. In either event you have to think about your choices and try to make the best one for you. If you had to choose between the two, who is more important to you? YOur boyfrend of your family? Who's happiness do you value more, yours or your families...No one said life is easy and sometimes we have to give up things that we want and take chances hurting loved ones, that's just the way it goes.

Questions In This Thread

• Does he sound gay/bi to you?
  S -- November 2
  • Yes
    Anthony -- November 4
    • Re: Yes
      S -- November 5
  • should i marry him or not
    greyson19 -- November 14
    • Choices
      Anthony -- November 21
  • time/matter?
    happy yet not -- January 30
    • You deserve to be happy!
      Joey -- February 2

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