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Submitted By: anthony
Date: October 21

In Answer To: Do I tell my uncle I'm going to Kurfew? (KH)

First off, 18 will get you in no problem as long as you bring a valid ID. As far as telling your Uncle, maybe you can just mention to him that you are going to "Kurfew", if he is straight he will have no idea what you are talking about, and if he is gay there is a good chance that he will. This should give you a good starting off point, its always good when you're young to have someone a little older and more knowledgable with whom you can talk about some of the "coming out issues" . Your last three questions are very common ones so I will just answer in brief, coming alone is fine, wearing a shirt is fine (personally I don't know where this idea that you has to take off your shirt to be accepted came from, I hate my body and have never removed my shirt at Kurfew, and it's never been a problem). Finally, meeting people on the net to go with is generally a safe idea, but of course there are no guarantees. Good luck, can't wait to see you at Kurfew!

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• Do I tell my uncle I'm going to Kurfew?
  KH -- October 13
  • Come clean
    anthony -- October 21

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