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Starting over or running away?

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: July 12

In Answer To: What next? (Gus)

While I can thinking of a thousand valid and exciting reasons to move to a new place and starting a new life, yours doesn't really fly with me. It seems to me that you are trying to run away from your problems by changing location. Don't be suprised if your problems follow you. I live in New York and encounter people by the dozen who don't "fit in" with the gay scene and are lonely and irritable. Regardless of whether you decide to change locations, I think you need to take some time to examine the roots of your irritabity and unhappiness and look at the ways you can change yourself and your outlook to make life less painful for you. If you want to move, that's fine, but relaize that it might not be the answer to your problems. Find out what is causing the prolems and come up with creative solutions to change it.

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• What next?
  Gus -- July 10
  • Starting over or running away?
    Anthony -- July 12

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