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Decisions, decisions... :(

Submitted By: AJ
Date: July 8

Alright, here's my problem. I am 'with' a guy, he is 18, I am 17. I love him, and he says he loves me. Thing is... he now lives 6 hours away. (Me: KC, Missouri. Him: Somewhere, Oklahoma) It's been about nine months. I would do anything to see him, but I can't. The truth is... we're both, lonely... we're missing the phsyical relationship. Talking on the phone, or online isn't enough. Things first started getting confusing when he said he loved me, but as a brother and not a boyfriend. A week later, he tells me he just broke up with another guy? And we kind of got back together. He has had sex at least one time I know of, while we're together with someone else. Then had feelings towards some girl recently... This entire time, I've been turning people down, that my friends were trying to hook me up with. I find this out, and it hurts. I mean, I waited... he didn't. But wait for what? It's not like he'll move here, or vice-versa... Unless I decide to go to colledge there. I'm getting lonely, and I am unsure of what to do... I need more then this. I am beginning to udnerstand why people say long-distance relation-ships don't work. So anyway: Is it wrong to want to find someone else? Should I break it off... stick it out, and wait for whatever it is I'm supposed to be waiting for. *Sigh* I'm just rambling... any thoughts/comments, help. X_X

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• Decisions, decisions... :(
  AJ -- July 8
  • Move On
    Anthony -- July 8

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