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AM I GAY??!?!?!

Submitted By: A. H.
Date: June 5

Okay, I've wrote to you before, but am still having questions. Here it is:

Ever since I was little, I never saw what the big deal was with girls... BUT.... nor did I see anything big(no pun intended) about guys either. I never looked at 'straight porn', even when I wasn't even THINKING about my sexuality. In middle school, all of my freidns talked about how they looked at play boy and J!@!@! off to them. I decided that I would see what the big deal was... I tried to look at some 'striaght porn', but didn't really feel anything. I'm 14 now, and I just started wondering about my sexuality about 2 years-2 1/2 years ago. I've had alot of attraction towards other guys, and sorta like one now. But, I was watching hbo, and they had one of those oh so delightful specials on, and I 'sort of' got aroused. It was basically 'straight porn'(please excuse my words). I havebn't liked many girls in the passed two and a half years, but a lot of guys. I'm not sure, but I heard something about a lot of gay people being 'left handed'(from this site, in fact!), but I'm right handed. I still sort of like this guy, and have had dreams in the past years about 'gay sex'. I've seen gay porn, and have gotten aroused, but nothing really with 'straight' stuff. So, I guess my question is, do you think I'm gay? I know I'm only 14, but I still would like to know. I see all these young people come out, but on tv you hear all this crap about you only REALLY find yourself at around age 21. Sounds a lil' extremem or somethin. I'm not very feminen(please excuse the 'stereotype'!), and no one ever calls me gay. so, what do you thikn, based on your wexperiances. Do you think I could be going through a very long phase or somethin'; or it could be 'for real'. Thank you for taking your time to read and respond to my question. It means a lot.

NOTE: I'm the anynomous one who wrote that letter. I wrote it about 6 months ago, and it was already on here. How'd it get back up ehre again. Thanx... ;-)

Questions In This Thread

• AM I GAY??!?!?!
  A. H. -- June 5
  • There's no rush...time will tell...
    Jeff -- June 6

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