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Welcome to the chaotic world of dating...

Submitted By: Jeff
Date: June 5

In Answer To: I'm mad confused...HELP!! (Angel)

Yep...it's one of those dilemmas, and it doesn't matter whether you're straight, gay, bi, or anything else! It works like this: you're involved with one person, and then you fall for another. There are endless variations on this theme.

So what do you do? You've got to decide how much value you place on your relationship with "Joe." It's clear that Joe's quite into you, but also seems the feelings are not reciprocal. In that case, it makes sense to be honest to "Joe" and pursue the new relationship. After all, you're young and it's reasonable to date a few people beforing figuring out what you like, want and need.

Just don't make it a habit...you should strive to make your relationships work, or you'll be doomed to a lifetime of short-term relationships.

Questions In This Thread

• I'm mad confused...HELP!!
  Angel -- March 15
  • Welcome to the chaotic world of dating...
    Jeff -- June 5

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