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Worse of two evils...

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: February 7

In Answer To: what to do... (??)

First off, I have to say that by law, both of your "relationships" are illegal. I am not very trusting of any guy who would date a 15 year old. But you came here for advice and not preaching (although I think you could use a good talking to, as the saying goes) so here it goes...Dump the married guy, no good can ever come of that. I know the money is probably very appealing to you at your age, but it's just not worth it. In the words of Blanche Devaraux, "never date a married man, he always ends up feeling so guilty that he buys the really expensive gifts for his wife". Anyway, the situation sounds like a classic cry for a father figure. The lawyer sounds like a more suitable dating option, but your still young so try to keep your options open and please take this advice...beware of any adult who will date a 15 year old. I know it seems flattering that older guys take you seriously but in my past and present, that has always been a sign of trouble.

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• what to do...
  ?? -- February 5
  • Worse of two evils...
    Anthony -- February 7

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