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Young and Utterly Restless

Submitted By: Jeff
Date: December 27

In Answer To: Young and Utterly Restless (Flamer without fire)

We occasionally get reminders of how fragile life is. We all have to deal with the inevitability of death in our lives, whether that of a friend, a relative, or one's own death. While your tragedy may seem unsurmountable at first, with time you'll actually draw strength and character from the experience and come out of it as a better person.

Take the time you need to mourn. This is normal and heatlhy. When you're ready, you'll know it. You'll find the strength to pick up and move on. And as difficult as it may be to imagine, you will love again...and this is certainly what your boyfriend would have wanted for you.

In the meantime, making some efforts to do good in this world, and help others in crises is a great way to improve your own spirits. Need is particularly great after the September 11th incidents...so volunteer your time, and help add smiles to the lives of others. Before long, you will find that brigthness and happiness will return to your life as well. I guarantee it.

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