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Way to go!!!

Submitted By: Anthony
Date: December 17

In Answer To: Is my man gay?? (Confused Chic)

Well, I don't see any convincing evidence that your husband is gay, but perhaps there is stuff that you haven't shared because it is private. Joking around with friends isn't exactly the same thing as having sex with another guy, but if you have your suspicions, I am sure they are soundly based. I wanted to commend you on the supportive attitude you have taken on this situation. It must be a difficult situation for you but you seem to consider your child and your husband's happiness first. That is extremely noble. I think that what you suggested is an excellent way to bring it up to him. Letting him know that you are supportive of his sexaultiy and that you are interested in preserving the family closeness between the three of you will give him much comfort if he is indeed gay. However,even if he is, it doesn't mean he is ready to admit it to you just yet. Be patient and kind with him and let him know you are there for him. Let me know how it goes. Best of Luck!

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