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Gay guy is flirting w/ me. whats it mean?

Submitted By: Jessica
Date: December 5

OK I am a confused Lesbian. I've always seemed to somewhat like girls but from time to time I just tend to look at guys but I don't really think anything about it with of course the exception of my best friend.

ok me and this guy matt have been best friends for about 4 1/2 yrs now. We've been there for each other always lending a shoulder to cry on but recently oh say in the past year he's been getting physical. By physical i mean sexually. From time to time we tend to wrestle, ya know just play fighting he eventually ends up pinning me and while im down for the count he'll either tickle me or TOUCH me where friends usually don't touch. When i pin him (which is rare) he usually doesn't put up much of a fight but just lays there staring up at me. Now i'm not exactly saying it's all him because i do tend to "grab" him back but i don't know now. It just seems a little too often to be all in fun. Whats it all mean? Are we just playful pals or secret lovers?

p.s.
In a prior email someone asked a similar ? but i hoped you could help me a little more being how much detail i went into.
He's told me before that he doesn't like me like that but if he doesn't why does he continue to always have to touch me constantly i'm not just meaning in the sexual aspect now either

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• Gay guy is flirting w/ me. whats it mean?
  Jessica -- December 5
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