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First, calm down!

Submitted By: Dave
Date: 12/25

Dear "Don't Know Jack,"
First of all buddy you have to calm down so you
can start to think straight before things get crazy. You're not the first person, gay or straight, to come onto a friend. I don't really know any details because you didn't write much, but I will give it my best. If you came on to him a whole lot and he felt very uncomfortable then he may have told others. If it was very casual and not a big deal he might just pass it off. And he may not think you're gay depending on what you did. The more crazy you act over it, the more likely he might continue to react negatively. If you just brush it off, perhaps he'll do the same. If people do find out you have to ask yourself if you want to come out. Analyze your situation and think if it is a good idea or bad one depending on what you want to do. I will be glad to help you out through this, you just have to write me with more details so I have something to expand on. My advice for now is to stay calm and be strong!

Dave

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