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Re: Is My Guy Gay?

Submitted By: The Kurfew Krew
Date: September 23

In Answer To: Is My Guy Gay? (karen keys)

It sounds like you're dealing with a lot of confusing and conflicting signals. While some of his interests, like diva music, might seem stereotypically linked to gay culture, they don't necessarily indicate someone's sexual orientation. And even if he's on gay websites, he may be curious or he may be like most humans and have a sexuality somewhere in the middle. But even people who are bisexual can successfully maintain a relationship and intimacy with one person. What’s more concerning is the shift in intimacy, his behavior on affair websites, and his communication with ex-girlfriends. These are bigger signs of potential issues in your relationship, regardless of his sexuality.

The important thing is to focus on what you want and need from the relationship. If he's avoiding intimacy and dodging conversations about marriage, it might be time to have an open, honest discussion about where things are going. His actions are raising trust issues, and those are important to address directly. You deserve clarity about his feelings and intentions.

Ultimately, it’s not just about whether he’s gay or not—it’s about whether he's being honest with you and whether the relationship is fulfilling for both of you. Take care of yourself.

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