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Submitted By: Tom V
Date: February 19

Hi :)

I was recently told about Kurfew and decided to check out the site, and what a great site it is! Anyway before I get to my question(s)I'd like to give a quick background of myself. My name is Tom, I'm 17 and live in westchester. I recently came out as bisexual to most of my friends and my parents. Telling my parents was one of the greatest things I've ever done. Anyway, as I said I came out as bisexual but I think I could be gay. The only reason I think I'm bi is because I had a girlfriend and I enjoyed being with her mentally and physically. After we broke up I discovered I had an attraction to men. It started out as nothing big but now it's totally progressed to where I have little or no attraction to women. I'm just confused, could I be gay even though I was intimate with my girlfriend? Should I be worried so much about labels? I just feel like I need a label just for me, so I can feel satisfied about who I am. Sorry this is so long! Thanks so much for your advice in advance.

Tom

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• Labels Labels Labels
  Tom V -- February 19
  • Labels are for those who want to use them!
    Jeff -- February 24

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