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What should I do?

Submitted By: Shunned?
Date: October 10

I'm a bi freshman male, and I'v had the biggest crush on a senior. We're both in band, and play the same instrument, so we know each other and talk a lot. Well, after a lot of things he has done that hinted towards him liking me, I told him I am bi, and he just responded 'ok, thats cool. I don't judge'. So, things continued on as normal. Then, a week later, I told him I like HIM. All he said was 'ok, thats cool, sorry, but im not like that' and that was all. He seemed normal. That was last Wednesday, and we haven't talked since. He won't even reply to messages. Not that he did before, but yea... I'm not sure if he just hasn't noticed me, or if he's avoiding and ignoring me. He doesn't even look at me in the halls anymore, and its killing me inside. What do you think I should do next?

Questions In This Thread

• What should I do?
  Shunned? -- October 10
  • Respect his comments and give him space
    The Kurfew Krew -- September 23

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