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Submitted By: Anthony
Date: October 24

In Answer To: Needing advice. . . (Oz)

That subject line doesn't really make sense but I really like that movie and your name is OZ. Anyway...I think there is something to that actions speak louder than words crap, so if your boyfriend's actions are hurting you, you should take it as a sign that something is up even if he denies it. Talk to him, tell him that he is huting you and ask him why he acts the way that he does. He will probably tell you that that is just the way he is...then you will probably (with a smile and twinkle in your eye) say to yourself, "oh what a relief, it's not me, I will just change him!!" then expect that things will go back to the way they used to be...which will of course never happen....what the hell am I talking about?

Anyway, yeah, you should definately talk to him about it, but just rememeber, life is short and if someone is treating you badly, you're probably better off without them.

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