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Should I tell him?

Submitted By: Boxer16
Date: October 2

Ok, I have been going to the same school for all my life. I'm sixteen and I have never been with anybody if you know what I mean. I'm not the type of person to settle for less than the best. I have had feelings for guys for a while, maybe three years. It's not just sexual but also emotional. I hate to admit it but when I fall I fall hard. I literally obsess for people. Now what this is all adding up to is, this new guy moved to my school from the city school. He is so sweet and extremely cute. I fell in love with him the moment I met him and I have been out a few times with him just as friends. We would just ride around town. Now, I'm extremely shy and I do not talk a lot at all. I almost feel like he gets bored with me because I don't talk. It's not that I have nothing to say, it's that I am so scared that if I tell him how I feel he will never talk to me again. I cherish his friendship so much. If he told anyone about me it would ruin my reputation at school. I trust him completely. I even let him drive my '99 Jeep Wrangler even though he doesn't have his license. (But he is the same age as me.) I feel so bad for him because his parents split up and I just want to hold him and tell him that there are people in this world who love him. Ever since I've fallen for him I haven't been able to look at any other guy. At all. I was so surprised when I looked at a hot guy and didn't feel anything. He has changed me so much that I used to hate any hair on a guy's chest. He has a little trail of dark hair going down from his belly button. I think that is so cute now although only on him. He is slightly taller than me with dark hair, fair skin, and freckles. I never liked freckles before I met him. Well I better let you go, but what do you think I should do? Should I tell him or keep quiet? Please help me.

Questions In This Thread

• Should I tell him?
  Boxer16 -- October 2
  • Re: Should I tell him?
    Koolguy027 -- January 12
    • It will happen
      Joey -- January 30

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