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Re: Tell him

Submitted By: honey
Date: August 2

In Answer To: Tell him (Anthony)

ok i don't want to bother you guyz again but... i took your advice and told him pretty much everything about my past and my family and everything. well he reacted in such a way that its made things very much worse than before. first he began ranting that i needed to report my father and various cousins and uncles to the police and when i refused he said that he was going to take me away from them and that he would kill my dad if we tried to see each other when he's released which is in a few months and he completely missed the point of why i told him and misunderstood my feelings about my family and the situations completely and says he is only thinking of me which seems like the opposite to me if i look at the way he's handling this and i'm really not sure whut i should do. should i consider leaving him and just cut off the relationship indefinitely because he can't handle my past which is a part of me and has made me who i am and he should except it if he really loves me... or should i break it off until he calms down... i'm just really confused as to how i should handle this because i care about him and love him very much and i was alwayz told that family should come first and if people can't except that then i shouldn't be with or near them but i love him and i can't just abandon this guy the way i was taught to believe that i should if people don't like the way my family lives or whut they believe in but i'm also really afraid of whut my family could do to him and me if i don't end the relationship

Questions In This Thread

• should i tell him...?
  honey -- July 25
  • Tell him
    Anthony -- July 25
    • Re: Tell him
      honey -- August 2
      • This is so not my area
        Anthony -- August 2

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