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Submitted By: Dave
Date: 3/25/01

In Answer To: Confused feelings. (Chants)

Dear Chants,

To answer your first question about making friends there are many things you can do. I am involved with about 10 extracurricular activites with school. Withen each of them I have made more friends and been introduced into a new group of people. At first they were weary to whether or not I was cool, but I was just myself and did a lot of work in each activity and they learned to respect me and in turn, they became my friends. That is probably the easiest was I have made new friends. Seconds about the guy hitting on you...The next time he does something ask him why he is doing what he is doing. See if he is just fooling around, and just say how it is pretty odd to be fooling around because straight guys don't run around grabbing womens' breasts. Tell him the next time he does it you will do it to him and see how he responds, if he likes it or not. If not then back up and give him space because if you don't want him spreading things about you then you should give him space. See if these things work, if not let me know.

Dave

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• Confused feelings.
  Chants -- 3/1/01
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    Dave -- 3/25/01
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